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Your Brain’s Relapse Playbook—And How to Rewrite It

How to spot the hidden slide toward relapse—and reroute before the first sip.

August 19, 2025

The Sobriety Daily Newsletter
August 19 2025 | Stay Connected, Stay Sober

Relapse is not a sign of failure—it’s a common part of the recovery journey. However, with the right strategies, it can be anticipated, managed, and often prevented. This newsletter explores science-backed relapse prevention techniques, helping you build resilience before cravings strike.

Understanding Relapse: More Than Just a Slip

Relapse is rarely a single moment of weakness. It’s typically a process with three stages:

  1. Emotional Relapse – Mood swings, isolation, poor self-care.

  2. Mental Relapse – Bargaining ("Just one won’t hurt"), glamorizing past use.

  3. Physical Relapse – Actual substance use.

Key Insight: Catching relapse in the emotional or mental stage makes it far easier to stop.

Relapse Prevention Strategies That Work

A. Identify & Neutralize Triggers

  • People, Places, & Routines – Avoid high-risk situations early in recovery.

  • HALT (Hungry, Angry, Lonely, Tired) – These states weaken resolve. Preempt them.

  • Stress & Boredom – The two biggest relapse catalysts. Have a plan for both.

  • Emotional Landmines – Track which feelings (loneliness, anger, celebration) most often precede cravings.

  • Sensory Triggers – Certain smells, songs, or even weather can spark cravings.

B. Build a Relapse Prevention Plan

✔ Emergency Contacts – Keep 3 sober allies on speed dial.
✔ Distraction Techniques – Craving lasts ~15-20 minutes. Use:

  • Intense exercise (push-ups, cold shower)

  • "Urge Surfing" (Observe the craving like a wave—it peaks, then fades.)
    ✔ Scripted Responses – Practice saying "No, thanks" confidently.

C. Cognitive Reframing

  • Play the Tape Forward – Visualize the entire relapse cycle, not just the first drink.

  • "Addiction Voice" Recognition – When your brain says "You can moderate now," label it as the addiction talking—not you.

D. Lifestyle Reinforcement

  • Sleep & Nutrition – Poor self-care lowers impulse control.

  • Routine Check-Ins – Therapy, support groups, or journaling to track progress.

  • New Rewards – Replace drinking cues with healthier pleasures (e.g., fancy NA drinks, gaming, hiking).

  • Neurochemical Balance – Boost dopamine naturally with morning sunlight, cold exposure, or creative projects to reduce reliance on substance-induced highs.

  • Sober Scaffolding – Design your environment to support sobriety (e.g., no alcohol at home, follow sober social media accounts, keep NA drinks stocked).

What to Do If a Relapse Happens

  1. Stop Immediately – One lapse doesn’t have to become a full relapse.

  2. Analyze, Don’t Moralize – Ask: "What triggered this? What could I do differently?"

  3. Reach Out – Shame thrives in silence. Call your support system today.

  4. Reset, Don’t Restart – You haven’t lost your sober time or progress.

Sobriety News

  1. Newly released video shows Southwest pilot David Allsop admitting to drinking "three beers" before failing a sobriety test, delaying Flight 3772 by four hours. The 52-year-old was arrested pre-takeoff in January, with Southwest confirming his removal from duty and passenger rebookings.

  2. Palm Springs Police ramp up DUI patrols as summer ends, citing 1,200+ drunk-driving deaths nationwide in 2023. Officers urge designated drivers or rideshares, emphasizing that impaired driving includes drugs—not just alcohol—and reminding all to buckle up.

  3. Wayne County’s Safe Communities launches its "Drive Sober or Get Pulled Over" campaign at the August 19 Cruise N Dine Car Show, featuring interactive drunk-driving simulations and law enforcement education. The initiative aims to reduce impaired driving and boost seatbelt use after a recent alcohol-related traffic fatality in the area.

Upcoming Events

  • August 23 : Hitchcock Center for Women Alumni and Sober Community Festival Learn More

  • August 22 - 24 : Western Roundup Living Sober Conference! Learn More

  • August 28 : NA Cocktail Making Class: Crafting Complexity Without the Spirits Learn More

Reader’s Corner

Q: How do I rebuild trust after relapse?

A: Actions, not words. Show up. Repeat.

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