From Cultural Conditioning to Conscious Recovery

His journey through loss, a toxic work culture, and a family legacy of addiction led him to find sobriety through a multi-faceted path of support.

October 07, 2025

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The Navigation Back to Self

Every story of recovery begins with a story of struggle, and for Marc Larsen, his was shaped by the culture he was born into. His parents immigrated from Denmark to New Zealand in the 1960s, a country steeped in a hard-drinking culture inherited from the UK. He grew up in the shadow of the “4pm swill,” a relic of old licensing laws that encouraged a frantic, two-hour race to consume as much alcohol as possible after work. This, Marc believes, is where the national ethos of “getting maggot drunk” took root, a legacy that would echo through his own life.

His first addiction was marijuana, starting at just 14 or 15. Cigarettes followed, as they were the “cool” thing to do. With the legal drinking age at 21, alcohol was harder to obtain, but not impossible for a determined teenager. He recalls finding a shop that would sell to him, returning three times in a single hour to buy cheap champagne. At 15, he drove himself home, profoundly drunk, to sleep it off. In West Auckland, the school of thought was simple: "get absolutely smashed." This pattern of daily drug use continued for years.

A profound tragedy would mark the end of one chapter and the beginning of another. It’s difficult to pinpoint what came first—the creeping fog of memory loss or the devastating loss of his mother to alcoholism. He was there, holding her hand as she passed, an experience so harrowing it instilled in him a deep fear of alcohol and compelled him to stop smoking marijuana. His mother had been the closest person in the world to him, and her passing created an upheaval that demanded a complete reset.

Seeking a change, Marc travelled to his parents’ homeland, Denmark. Here, alcohol was even more readily available, sold in shops all day and night. While he had his share of messy nights, the true alcoholic addiction was still held at bay. Upon returning to New Zealand, he carved his own path into the exciting, high-pressure world of the film industry. It was a life of long hours, good pay, and travel, but it was also a world where alcohol and drugs were rampant.

What began as one beer after work with the crew slowly escalated into several. Drink-driving became a daily, normalized risk. Compounding this was a toxic relationship, where a partner’s hurtful anger drove him further toward the bottle. Stress from work, stress from home—alcohol became his only escape. It was a learned behaviour, a coping mechanism.

He came to see alcohol as a twisted form of emotional regulation, offering a fleeting version of a skill he’d had as a child: the ability to “switch off” his feelings. But where childhood resilience allowed him to feel and move on, alcohol only allowed him to numb. The hurts, resentments, anger, fear, and anxiety were never processed; they were simply piled higher and higher, creating a massive fallout that ravaged his mind, body, and soul.

Proud of his Norse ancestry, he even romanticized his drinking, viewing it as a Viking’s right of passage. But the truth was far from glorious. He came to understand that he had no idea what alcoholism truly was: a chemical reaction, set in motion by that first drink, that created a physical and mental craving for more, and more, and more.

Marc’s recovery has been hard-won. It has not been a single path, but a tapestry of support and perseverance. His tools have included Community Alcohol and Drug Services (CADS), the Recovery Elevator podcast, Alcoholics Anonymous, the Buddhist Recovery Network, counselling, medical doctors, meditation, and medication. Above all, the love of his daughter and his dog have been anchors in the storm.

He has learned that recovery is not a race or a linear journey, but a navigation—a slow, deliberate navigation back. Back to his mind, back to his heart, and finally, back to his soul.

Marc Larsen will proudly celebrates five years of sobriety on October 18, 2025.


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